Vell's Rainbowfied Life.

Monday, May 28, 2007

SOMETHIN' BOUT PARENTS

Is there any parent that are perfect? Yeah I know...Nobody's perfect. But...is there any parent that at least tries to learn to be the best for the kids? Most parents only know how to impose rules on their kids. Always treat kids like robots that they can control. They hope that they cld change some things, hope that they cld prevent the kids frm suffering the same way as they did in their past. Bt most of their methods are often wrong. They usually use their mouths more than their ears. Mayb some DO listen to their kids' thoughts bt MOST do not.

Most parents are bothered by some nonsensical issue such as religion for instance. Most of them are nt interested with what the kids' interests are. They just want the kids to be interested with what they're interested in. They somehow forgotten that kids are also human beings with different personality, talents, abilities, characters, etc. The kids' passion are considered as nth but a passing desire. They find no point in letting the children achieve their dreams. Children are expected to be facing nth more than books. Giving them good grades is not a big deal for most parents. Unsatisfaction devour them. Greediness is all over their mind. Enough is nvr enough. The best is still not the best for them. They live a life like as if they've been 50yrs old all along. They treat the kids like they've nvr been kids before.

Why must it be like this? Why can't parents try to learn frm the past and try nt to repeat the same things again in the future, in their own family? Why do they just lead the children the same way as they were treated when they were young? They suffered frm ill treatment bt they don't learn frm it. They repeat the cycle instead and pass it down to their kids and they claim that they love the kids. That's how ridiculous it is.

Kids know how hard it is to be parents bt it is still unfair when parents are reluctant to hear the kids' point of views. There shld be some sort of freedom of speech that everyone shld take just a couple of minute to respect n listen to it. Children might nt have all the experience bt there are still some brains in their heads to think and hearts inside their body to feel.

Why do they have to think of their image 1st before the kids' happiness? It's considered as selfishness, ain't it? Is your self-image worth more than your kids' future happiness?

Vell Signed off ♥ 11:42 PM