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| Friday, September 18, 2009 |
I came across friends who once shared with me about how they feel like they are not wanted in the group of friends, that those people formed cliques that exclude them. And some people also feel that they are being rejected by the group, that they don't feel belong and all that stuff. Why is it so? As I began to ask myself, I began to think of the possible reasons. Perhaps it's the behavior that we have that's too awkward for other people to embrace. Perhaps, we are just simply too egoistic that we won't listen to other people's opinion and we always think that we're right and others are wrong. Or perhaps it's just our feelings? All those answers are possible, right? But as I think some more, I think our countenance matters way more than all those reasons above. I remember some of my friends told me that my face look kindda fierce when I don't smile. Even when I'm just simply listening to lecturers in school, being a good student coz I was paying attention, I looked fierce. That's why I don't seem friendly or approachable. Thus, my conclusion is.... We gotta do some assessment about how we portray ourselves to the public. We gotta be aware of how our appearance look like when we are out there, when we're seen by friends or even strangers. Our body language matters, our facial expression matters! It shows our mood, whether we're happy/sad/angry/whatever. So, we got to always show that we're in high spirits in order to attract friends to ourselves. Anyway I don't think I wanna have a friend who always looks tired. I want to be surrounded by people who are always so happy despite being exhausted after a whole day of work. Positivity attracts, while negativity repels. So I'm gonna try to look more positive and happier every second of my life. Anyway reduced frowning = reduced wrinkles, right? Hahahaha. And life's too short for us to live it with negative aura. So, all the best to me :D Cheers to happy, full of smiles and laughters, life. |
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